Was i wrong/too harsh on her?

[gypsyboyPS3]

ok so i grew up this girl, when i was 12 my family moved away so we just moved back, we are both 17 and we started dating,

now like a week after we started dating she left voicemail on my cell saying she was breaking up with me cause she couldint take it anymore, for a bet with her friend to see who would take it harder if they both broke she broke up with me and if he broke up with his girlfriend, i thought that was pretty stupid but i let it slide

now she starts sending me messages last night saying sh might be pregnant, but i asked her if she was a virgin before we started going out and she said yea, so when she told me she thinks she was pregnant i said "lol im not even gonna reply to that" thinking she was joking, then she said she was dead serious and didn't know what to do and she was scared, i then asked "i thought you said you was a virgin?" she said "maybe i told you a little white lie so you would like me"

so now im freaking out, i seriously love her and the thought of her cheating on me like that and might be pregnant scared me, cause i still love her but i can't raise someone else's kid right now, and then i start thinking if that was a little white lie what else has she been lying about?

like 1:30 later she told me to calm down cause it was a joke

so she calls me up and i start fighting with her over the phone, cause what kind of stupid joke is that? i mean c'mon if i told her i screwed a girl she would probably break up with me instantly,

i feel like i was to harsh.... (i didn't curse her or anything, i said she was a dumb buttocks and that what she did was completely idiotic) I don't think i should apologize cause imo, that was the most stupid joke she could have pulled... i took it very seriously, but i feel bad. should i? or will that make her think she can keep doing this to me?

(we've been dating since a month now)

[rzr]

Jerry jerry jerry.

That's ridiculous.

[TC_llama499]

no not harsh at all lol i would of fliped out on her haha you dont **** around with that stuff

[L0NEvvolf]

You were not too hard on her. That kind of thing is something you should never joke about.

[foilman8805]

Originally Posted by gypsyboyPS3

i said "lol im not even gonna reply to that"

You say 'lol' when you talk?

And don't let her get away with this kind of crap. Go up to her, and smack her across the face. Tell her to quit her bull****.

[gypsyboyPS3]

Originally Posted by foilman8805

You say 'lol' when you talk?

did i mention she sent me a message? i replied that in a message

[revolutionomega]

Aside from the poor grammar...
I think that a little anger/frustration with her is acceptable considering her blatant stupidity and making you sweat like that.
How long did this joke go on?
If you really love her, a joke might make you mad but not break up unless it was found to be true or really hurt you (and you hadn't been going out that long).
Personally I find the whole situation to be a bit ridiculous...

[gypsyboyPS3]

Originally Posted by revolutionomega

Aside from the poor grammar...
I think that a little anger/frustration with her is acceptable considering her blatant stupidity and making you sweat like that.
How long did this joke go on?
If you really love her, a joke might make you mad but not break up unless it was found to be true or really hurt you (and you hadn't been going out that long).
Personally I find the whole situation to be a bit ridiculous...

this retarded joke went on for like 1 hour and a half,

we didn't break up or anything, but i did yell at her on the phone

[Oni-Paranoia]

As i was reading i was gonna say.. another case of a girl possibly pregnant xD babyviper has a kid, rzr is in a bad spot, im in the same as him.. was so hoping you were serious in a way, ROFL

No you werent harsh, especially compared to how i speak to my ex gf's.. A curse every other word =P

[Bangcrashboom]

I beleive that what you did was rational and i wouldve done the same if not more. That isnt something you joke about. Wtf is wrong with her?

Ps. Dump her

[Svaz]

ITT OP CAN'T READ

[revolutionomega]

hmmm.
well yeah that was a bit over the top for an hour and a half.
I'd say she had **** comin' to her.
You don't joke wit dat ****.

[Kage_No_Shi]

She hasn't exactly been a 'cool' person from what I've read 0_o

I get why you feel bad (it is like a compulsion), but you have no reason to apologize, since she WAS rather dumb.

If she doesn't own up to the stupidity of her actions, well, I have a feeling dumb stuff like this may end up happening again....

[DayMan951]

you weren't hard enough on her. dump her. she's a bitch

[TC_llama499]

Originally Posted by DayMan951

you weren't hard enough on her. dump her. she's a bitch

this lol

[Kyaan Kyo]

You should dump her if she keeps on pulling your chain. Not worth your time. Seriously. What a biatch.

[gypsyboyPS3]

i don't want to dump her, i told her if she ever did this again or some other kind of sick joke like this i would dump her :P

[Bangcrashboom]

I really dont think you should be warning her, you should just dump her because shes just testing to see how far she can get with you with her lies. Then she will proceed from there

[DayMan951]

she wants you to dump her. you'll get a call from her in a week and she'll tell you she has aids or something, you'll get yourself checked, and then she'll tell you it was another joke. save her the effort and dump her. it's inevitable.

[gypsyboyPS3]

Originally Posted by Bangcrashboom

I really dont think you should be warning her, you should just dump her because shes just testing to see how far she can get with you with her lies. Then she will proceed from there

i guess? but i can't... even if i wanted to... i love her too much (waits for sarcasm/being made fun of)